Links & Resources

A couple of words on resources and advice, before I share my favorites:

There are so many books and people out there who will tell you the "right" way to do anything related to parenting, it can be very confusing and frustrating to look for the right help for you. Always remember, you are the very best expert on your baby and your family, and you should always do what feels comfortable and authentic for you.

The resources I share here are the ones I mention most in my classes, and the ones I have personally used the most in my career as a parent. If you have a recommendation or a reaction to one of the listed resources, please let me know. I am continually reading and updating this page, so it will always be a work in progress.

 

   Signing

Websites:

www.sign2me.com - Northlight Publishing's website, companion to SIGN with your BABY. Check out class listings, discussion group and research links.

www.babysigns.com - website of major other approach to using signs with babies. These folks have done a lot of their own research.

www.signit2.com - website of Aylmer press, who produce videos for children to help them learn signs. Also check out the articles and books sections

www.garlicpress.com - publisher of sign language resources for children and those who work with them. Note they have a SEE bias.

www.dawnsign.com - website of Dawn Sign Press, publishers of resources for learning ASL. Note they have an ASL bias.

http://www.masterstech-home.com/ASLDict.html - another online dictionary

http://commtechlab.msu.edu/sites/aslweb/browser.htm - My favorite online dictionary. They also have a CD ROM available. Video clips of all the signs they show

http://theinterpretersfriend.com/rlgn/vocab/a.html - dictionary of signs for a variety of religious settings. This site is intended for interpreters, but the person who put it together does have a page explaining his system of describing signs. I found it easy to use


Books:

With a Signing Emphasis

SIGN with your BABY, Joseph Garcia
American Sign Language Dictionary, Unabridged - Martin Sternberg, ed. Harper Reference
Beginning Sign Language Series, Garlic Press

Signing at School
Caring for Young Children
- Signing for Day Care Providers and Sitters
An Alphabet of Animal Signs
Family and Community
Fruits and Vegetables
Handtalk series
(Handtalk, Handtalk Zoo, Handtalk Birthday), Remy Charlip, Marybeth & George Ancana
My Signing Book of Numbers, Patricia Bedlam Gillen

Children's books that lend themselves to signing
(I use many of these in my classes)

The Very Hungry Caterpillar, by Eric Carle
Brown Bear, Brown Bear, by Eric Carle
Draw me a Star, by Eric Carle
Today is Monday, by Eric Carle
Chicka Chicka Boom Boom, by Bill Martin Jr.
A you're Adorable, by Martha Alexander
Goodnight Moon, by Margaret Wise Brown


Songs:

Hello, How are you - Ella Jenkins, Counting Games and Rhymes for the Little Ones
The More we get Together - Raffi, Singable Songs for the Very Young, Great with a Peanut Butter Sandwich
I had a Rooster - John Lithgow, Singin' in the Bathtub
A you're Adorable - John Lithgow, Singin' in the Bathtub
Going on a Picnic - Raffi, The corner Grocery Story and other songs
5 Little Ducks - Raffi, Raffi in Concert, LIVE

 

   Bradley ® Childbirth Preparation

Websites:

www.bradleybirth.com - the official website of Bradley Method Childbirth
www.blossombirth.com - website of Blossom Birth Services in Palo Alto. Terrific classes, support, and information.
www.gentlebirth.org/local/resources.html - fabulous listing of local resources for healthy pregnancies (mostly Santa Clara and San Mateo Counties)

Books:
Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way
, by Susan McCutcheon - the single best Bradley book out there - written for the expectant mother, from a woman's perspective

Husband Coached Childbirth, by Robert Bradley - the original work that led to the development of Bradley classes. Somewhat dated in its social perspectives; addressed largely to the expectant father

The Birth Book, The Pregnancy Book, by William and Martha Sears - the best general guide to birthing and pregnancy books I have found. The Sears' approach supports attachment and optimal starts for babies and families.

The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth, by Henci Goer - if you have questions about "routine" procedures and common complications in pregnancy, Henci spells out what the true risks and benefits are, as well as giving research references if you wish to go further.

Ina May's Guide to Childbirth, by Ina May Gaskin -- My new favorite definitive guide to childbirth, written by the doyenne of midwifery care in the United States. You don't have to be planning a home birth to benefit from reading this book -- great birth stories, and some new information (at least for me) about tools, tips and understanding the social history of how we got to where we are with birthing.


   Parenting

Websites:

www.askdrsears.com - William and Martha Sears' (The Baby Book) website. Wonderful resource for parenting information and development issues.

www.attachmentparenting.org - website of API, Attachment Parenting International. The main website for people with questions about attachment parenting. Check out their related websites links.

Books:
The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding
, La Leche League International - a good basic introduction to breastfeeding. Good to read before the baby comes!

Mothering your Nursing Toddler, by Norma J. Bumgarner - whether you are nursing a little one and wondering about weaning, or you have decided to extend breastfeeding, this is a very supportive book

The Fussy Baby Book, by William and Martha Sears - if your baby won't settle, insists on being held 24/7, if you are feeling like a bad parent because your infant isn't acting like a perfect angel, this book is reassuring and full of ways to help a parents and babies "tune in" to each other.

The Baby Book, by William and Martha Sears - a month-by-month compendium of useful information. If babies came with a manual, this would be it! We referred to it daily for the first few months of Seth's life

Hidden Messages: What Our Words and Actions Are Really Telling Our Children, by Elizabeth Pantley - One of the most thought-provoking parenting books I've ever read - an excellent combination of vignettes and immediately applicable suggestions.

Kid Cooperation: How to Stop Yelling, Nagging and Pleading and Get Kids to Cooperate, by Elizabeth Pantley - Can you tell I'm a fan of Elizabeth's work? One of her earlier books, it appears to follow a parenting-class curriculum week by week. If you are looking for a comprehensive look at evaluating and improving your parenting skills, try this one.

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